When we love, we love with everything. Willing to sacrifice whatever we have for the only One we want. See the difference?
Sacrificing your Haves for One Want?
That’s the problem with the human mind. For our desires we can run till we are succumbed to nothingness.
Sometimes life isn’t easy, we may not get what we want. Facing a problem like that in your life you should make sure you listen to your mind, the mind tells you to do what is right, the heart always drags you to your destruction. That is the one organ that beats soundly but pursues itself to its own death. We complicate things when we put desire before our logical part. The rational thoughts are lost hence we come up with the Cliche of calling it A COMPLICATED LIFE. Which in reality isn’t, its you who mixes it all, jumbles your thoughts in a labyrinth.
Separating your desires is sometimes very important, you may not be able to control yourself in falling in love.. trust me you can’t cause if you do than that’s not love. But you have to make sure that the desire is right, doesn’t have a bleak future or doesn’t destroy you and itself. Love to your fullest but before you decide to kill what you have make sure that its all worth the fight, sometimes it maybe but sometimes you may find flaws in it. We can try to find someone who won’t destroy us but help us for our betterment. Like Titanic, Jack and Rose the lovers of the Millenium but hadn’t they fallen in love they wouldn’t have lost their lives. That’s the ultimate challenge, you have to be selfish sometimes. Not all lovers I’m telling should lose hope but just think about what you love. Is it worth it?
Tell them what it is break it off, it will take time. But control yourself, write on your feelings and then take the paper and burn it, it will help. Writing does help. If not writing make yourself busy, make new friends, go to the local bar and enjoy your night. Let it go.
And always remember this line of Adele’s song : “Sometimes it lasts in love, but sometimes it hurts instead”
Fight that pain and triumph over yourself. Prove yourself that you’re the powerful one and your mind has power over your body. Self control in this brutish world is very important. Don’t fall for anything, make sure what you are falling for is worth everything you have!